A couple of weeks ago I used this space to state that schools need to be wary of trying to do too much, that it is imperative that folks not lose sight of what matters most at school. Since then, I’ve heard from a few that took what I wrote a bit too literally by asking whether I was suggesting that school be reduced to teaching the basics. While I appreciate this interpretation, this is not at all what I meant.
Schools have a captive audience of students and as such, are attractive locations for providing the students support in a myriad of skills and awareness type activities. It would not be hard for a principal to find something or someone that is an add-on to the district’s curriculum for each day of the week. My point in keeping it simple is that we must be selective in taking on new programs or activities. Is Character Counts a good thing for a school? Absolutely. I know that our principals who use this program feel it is well worth the effort. Is an assembly to celebrate national gerbil week a good use of school time, absolutely not. And while I write this tongue in cheek, it is not too distant from some of the tugs that our schools receive.
Our schools are tasked with the enormous responsibility of educating our children. Let’s ensure that we don’t dilute the school day to the point that this responsibility becomes impossible to meet.
Teaching Life Skills at School
Last Thursday I was in Homer to lead a parent training. Toward the middle of the presentation I asked the group to identify the skills that our students will need to be successful after they graduate from high school. A lot of good conversation ensued, but what was most interesting, was a sharp disagreement between two parents over whether a school or a family is responsible for teaching life skills. Both parents clearly agreed that our students need more in this area but had different views on the role that school should play with educating the whole child.
This dilemma is of course not new and schools, as you know, have been asked to do more and more in this area. While it is easy to dismiss the teaching of life skills, for example character, as not within a school’s domain, it’s my experience that students lacking in these skills usually do less well than do their peers who have them. My sense is that the parent who was arguing in favor of our schools teaching these skills recognized that many of our students are not learning these skills at home and hence, need to acquire them at school. One of the advantages of our district is that by and large, our students have a personal experience at school that includes employees knowing their names and layers of support to prevent them from slipping through the cracks. I support the teaching of life skills at school and know that our smaller size allows this to be a more seamless effort with our core than it would be in a larger setting.